Five Star Gift Ideas

That sounds like a beautifully cultured and thoughtful person! Here are a few personalized and meaningful gift ideas combining his interests in Urdu poetry, Kafka, and Ruben Östlund films:

1. **Customized Urdu Poetry Book:**
Craft a personalized book of Urdu poetry that could include a mix of classical poets like Mirza Ghalib and Allama Iqbal, as well as contemporary poets. You could also add some personal touches, such as writing your own short verses or annotations about why you've chosen particular pieces.

2. **Kafka-Inspired Journal:**
Find a high-quality leather journal or a notebook with a literary theme, perhaps with a Kafka quote on the cover. Add a personal touch by writing a heartfelt note on the first page, mentioning how much you appreciate sharing literary discussions with him.

3. **Urdu Poetry and Kafka Combo:**
Consider a bilingual edition of a famous Urdu poetry book, especially if he's interested in both the original and the translations. Pair it with a collected works of Kafka, which could be a beautiful addition to his library. Add a heartfelt dedication in the book to make it even more special.

4. **Ruben Östlund Film Marathon Kit:**
Compile all of Östlund’s films in a special box set, if available. Accompany this with a comfortable throw blanket, some gourmet popcorn, and a handwritten card suggesting a cozy film marathon night. Perhaps include a film critique or an essay about Östlund’s work to add an intellectual touch.

5. **Thematic Date Night:**
Plan a date night that might start with a visit to a bookstore or a library exhibition featuring Kafka's work, followed by attending a poetry reading event or a private recitation of Urdu poetry. End the evening with a screening of one of Östlund’s films at home or an art-house cinema.

6. **Art Piece:**
Commission a local artist to create a piece that combines elements from his favorite interests. For example, a painting or illustration that includes visual motifs from Kafka’s stories woven with beautiful Urdu script. This could be a unique and unforgettable piece of art for his living space.

7. **Poetry-influenced Personalized Item:**
You could also consider personalized items such as a print of his favorite Urdu poem framed, or a scarf or a piece of jewelry engraved with lines from a poem he loves.

Each of these gifts shows that you’ve put considerable thought into his unique interests, blending his love for literature and cinema into something heartfelt and unique. By choosing a gift that resonates with what he deeply enjoys, you're creating a memorable experience that goes beyond material value.

Or you can get him a star map with the date of your anniversary.

Hayley Diane says about Under Lucky Stars star maps:

“They are quick and the maps are beautiful. It’s super thoughtful. I had one made for my boyfriend for our 1 year anniversary and he loved it.”