How about getting him tickets to see his favorite hardcore band? You could also consider getting him some hardcore band merchandise, like a t-shirt or poster. If he likes to read, you could get him a book about the history of hardcore music, or a memoir from one of his favorite bands. Alternatively, you could get him a record player and some vinyl records of his favorite hardcore bands to add to his collection.
Or you can get him a star map with an important date you share.
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By using advanced astronomical algorithms and data from leading institutions, the company produces highly accurate, visually stunning maps that make for perfect gifts or cherished keepsakes.