Five Star Gift Ideas

It sounds like you’re trying to find a unique and meaningful gift for your son. If the intention behind your statement was to express frustration over his strong opinions or attitudes, it may be helpful to focus on gifts that encourage empathy, understanding, and broaden perspectives.

1. **Books that Encourage Empathy**: Consider gifting him books that promote understanding and diversity. Titles like “To Kill a Mockingbird” by Harper Lee or “The Hate U Give” by Angie Thomas can provide new perspectives and encourage empathy through powerful storytelling.

2. **Cultural Experience**: Consider tickets to a cultural event that celebrates diversity, such as a film festival, concert, or play. Experiences like these can offer new perspectives through art and storytelling.

3. **Volunteer Together**: As a bonding experience, spend time volunteering together in organizations that support marginalized communities. This will not only be a meaningful way to spend time together but also provide insight into different life experiences and viewpoints.

4. **Educational Subscriptions**: Subscribe him to a magazine or online platform like "MasterClass" or "Great Courses Plus" where he can explore a variety of topics, including those focused on social issues and human rights which could foster empathy and understanding of diverse communities.

5. **Board Games or Activities Encouraging Teamwork**: Games that promote teamwork and collaboration can subtly teach the importance of working with various people and appreciating different skills and perspectives. Choices include games like “Pandemic” or “Forbidden Island.”

6. **Art Supplies or Creative Workshops**: If he enjoys creativity, consider art supplies or a workshop in a medium he’s interested in. Art can be a powerful means of exploring and expressing feelings and ideas, which might help him engage in self-reflection.

7. **Interactive Experiences**: If he’s into technology or gaming, consider games that emphasize storytelling and empathy. Titles like “Life is Strange” or “Journey” can offer narratives that center on understanding and connecting with diverse characters.

By choosing a gift that gently encourages openness and understanding, you provide an opportunity for growth and connection. Christmas gifts are a wonderful chance to share values of compassion and encourage new ways of thinking, all while strengthening your bond.

Or you can get him a star map with an important date you share.

Madeline Moran Weiler says about Under Lucky Stars star maps:

“The map was absolutely beautiful! My grandson was thrilled with it (it was a Christmas gift) and has already asked me if I would consider getting another one for him as a graduation gift in a couple of years.”